Have you ever thought of this? The Narcissist and the codependent share the same worldview and are basically two sides of the same coin?
The Narcissist and Codependent basically view the world as being divided into two, those who are superior and those who are inferior. If one is to put this in the perspective of psychiatrist Thomas Anthony Harris, the Narcissist takes the world view of, I’m Okay You’re Not Okay, with the codependent and the codependent takes the world view of, I’m not Okay You’re Okay with the Narcissist.
That is how the Narcissist can convince the codependent that they are better than them. The codependent quickly buys it because they already believe that they are inferior.
People who do not have this world view, in my observation, will easily see that the Narcissist as having a pumped up ego and is self-centered and walk away from it. They consider the Narcissists ego as having nothing to do with them.
The codependent on the other hand, idealizes the Narcissist and their behaviour only concretizes their feelings of inferiority. The codependent, fueled by idealization, only solidifies their belief in their own inadequacy.
Understanding this symbiotic relationship is crucial for breaking free from its toxic grip and fostering healthier, more balanced connections. By recognizing the underlying dynamics at play, individuals can begin to reclaim their sense of self-worth and autonomy.
